17. August 2013 04:43
Domestic cats instinctively don't want to drink from the water bowl next to their food because in the wild any water next to their kill might be contaminated. They tend to look for running water.....like a toilet or other similar source.
4. May 2013 06:30
It would be a safe assumption that these two are best buddies. If you have any similar pictures we would love to see them. Our goal is to not only to provide you with pet urns and other pet loss memorials, but also provide online resources to share with others the memories you had with your pet. You don't have to wait to share your memories from yesterday or years ago today! Enjoy the smile this picture puts on your face.
26. March 2012 19:30
What if I told you that, in time, the pain will go away? That, years from now, you will look fondly on the good memories of your pet without your heart breaking? Well, it’s not only possible; it’s true. According to popular psychology, there is a process of grieving that most people go through when dealing with a loss. Understanding this process will help you see the light at the end of the tunnel of grief. The theory of coping with death was developed by Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross and is easily recognized by the acronym DABDA: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance. Briefly, each stage of coping is described below:
- Denial -- “There’s no way this could be happening to me."
- Anger -- "Why me? I don’t deserve this.”
- Bargaining -- “Maybe if I tried this new medication or procedure, he wouldn’t die.”
- Depression -- “I don’t know how to deal with this. I’m just so sad.”
- Acceptance -- “It will be okay. I can accept this.”
When grieving a loss of a pet (or any other loved one), it’s important to know that emotions like anger and denial are normal and that, although you may always miss your best friend, you will one day be able to move on. If your emotions seem too much to handle on your own, don’t feel bad about seeking help, either from friends or from a professional. You can also consider letting Best Friend Services help you choose the best pet memorial for your dog, cat or other pet. When you’ve moved through the grieving process, you’ll be thankful you’ve chosen to memorialize your loved one in such a special way. Having a physical remembrance in place for your pet can help you to find closure to the grieving process.
7. March 2012 09:00
You may be prepared for the loss of your own pet, but what about your friends and family? Do they have a plan in place? Often times, when faced with the impending death of a loved one, people forget to ask some of the questions that should seem obvious: Will the pet be buried or cremated? How will we tell the kids? Will we hold a service? So, when a friend experiences a loss, there are plenty of ways you can help soften the blow and take care of some of the details for them. Some ideas for how you can help:
- Arrange a casual gathering to share memories of and stories about the family pet. Plan it at a comfortable place with familiar friends and good food.
- Create a photo album of pet photos as a gift for your friend. If you can make it a surprise, it might be even more special to them.
- Bring your friend a homemade meal on their first day without their pet to give them a day off. Offer to eat the meal with them--they may want company. (Or they may not! Always ask first.)
- Help them choose a way to commemorate their pet in a more permanent way with a memorial plaque or urn. Best Friend Services offers various options for the perfect gift. But, if you can't decide which product is best, one safe bet is a Best Friends Services gift certificate.
No matter how you choose to help your friend mourn their loss, remember that being present and available to help is the best thing you can do. The rest will fall into place.
31. October 2011 19:38
For many, an important part of the grieving process when they've lost a pet is choosing a way to honor his memory. Whether you've chosen to bury your lost friend at home, cremate his remains or find him a plot in a cemetery, a burial marker can serve as a visual reminder of his life and memory.
Best Friend Services understands how important finding the right memorial for your beloved pet is. We offer several choices for burial markers, all of them tasteful and elegant. One option is this beautiful lasered black marker. Choose from five different sizes, from small (4" x 7" x 2") to jumbo (10" x 16" x 2").
A solid, polished block of black granite is etched with your chosen words. Include your pet's name, the dates of his life and some words of love, or come up with your own unique tribute. Next to your inscription appears a beautiful picture of your pet. You can send us a digital copy of your image, or mail us a photograph. We can even remove elements of the photo that you don't desire to appear on the memorial.